Did you know that one in five people these days are affected by mental illnesses such as anxiety and depression? These days many of us are also struggling with stress and overwhelm as the pace and demands of life increase.
I believe now more than ever we all need to commit to making our mental health a priority.
In honour of World Mental Health Day, here are seven proven tips that will improve your mental health and boost your wellbeing.
1. Exercise Regularly
It’s well known that exercise is important for keeping our bodies healthy, but did you know that exercise is also vital for good mental health? Research shows that people who exercise regularly have better mental health, reduced risk of developing mental illness and greater emotional wellbeing too.
How Exercise Boosts Your Mental Health
- Exercise increases your energy levels both mentally and physically.
- Exercise helps you sleep better, and good sleep helps regulate your emotions.
- Exercise can improve confidence and self-esteem as you achieve a healthy goal and take care of yourself.
- Exercise changes hormones and chemicals in the brain in mood boosting ways including an ‘endorphin rush’ that increases feelings of calm and happiness as well as improving focus and memory.
- Physical activity can be an outlet for irritation, frustration and bad moods.
- Exercise is a powerful way to alleviate the symptoms of mental illness. For example research suggests exercise can be as effective as medication or speaking to a psychologist for overcoming mild depression.
Think About Starting Small
Keeping physically active doesn’t have to mean working out at the gym, it can be simply going for a walk in the park. Experts advise that at least 20 to 30 minutes of exercise at least five days a week is ideal. If you’re not currently exercising why not start small with a goal that feels immediately achievable – like just 5 to 10 minutes a day. Start small and you can build up from there. This is often the best way to form new habits.
2. Practice Mindfulness
Mindfulness (a form of meditative awareness) involves training our attention and learning to have a more wise and skillful relationship with our own minds. Mindfulness teaches us to unhook from unhelpful and unproductive thought patterns and behaviours. It involves learning to steady our awareness in the present moment rather than getting lost in our heads worrying, ruminating about problems or locked into self-criticism or negative judgements.
Research Shows That Mindfulness…
- Reduces stress, depression and anxiety
- Increases stress resilience
- Brings feelings of peace and inner calm
- Improves relationships
- Improves overall sense of wellbeing and life satisfaction
3. Eat A Healthy Diet
What we eat affects how we feel. If you’ve ever watched how quickly sugar can have an effect on the mood of small children (and adults too) or if you’ve ever felt dull and tired after a heavy lunch of carbs you’ll have seen and felt the effects that foods we choose to eat can have.
But it’s not just sugar and heavy carbs. All kinds of foods can also have short-term as well as long-lasting effects on your mental health.Your body needs a mix of nutrients and minerals to function well, so making sure you’re eating a good diet is truly vital for mental health.
A Healthy Diet Includes
- A variety of fresh vegetables and fruits
- Nuts and seeds
- A good source of protein, from either fish meats (from good sources) or plant-based
- Regular water consumption 6- 8 glasses per day
- Potentially dairy, grains and complex carbohydrates like beans, lentils, pumpkin etc
Try To Limit
- How much caffeine you drink
- How much sugar is in your diet
- Taking in a lot of intoxicants
- Things you are intolerant or allergic to
4. Drink In Moderation
Many people who overindulge in drinking alcohol (or other substances) commonly do it to change their mood. Although it may numb or overcome a difficult feeling for a while, the effects are short-lived. Alcohol doesn’t deal with the causes of difficult feelings or solve our problems. It makes them worse. There are much healthier ways of dealing with difficult feelings including the other ones listed in this post.
Occasional drinking in moderation is quite healthy and enjoyable for most people. As a useful guide to drinking in moderation, keep in mind that the daily alcohol limit recommended by alcohol.gov.au is no more than two standard drinks per day.
5. Practice Self-Compassion
Do you have a harsh inner critic? It’s common to beat ourselves up and berate ourselves but research shows this habit of self-criticism comes at a price: It makes us lose confidence, feel unhappy with our lives and even leads to depression and anxiety.
Self-compassion is a way of relating to ourselves more kindly and studies show it makes us happier and gives us better overall emotional wellbeing (as well as a whole host of other benefits too)
In a report published by three German psychologists, which examined 79 studies on the link between self-compassion and well-being, they reached this conclusion: People who are kinder to themselves tend to be happier.
Kristin Neff, who has been a pioneer in the study of self-compassion says, “With self-compassion, we give ourselves the same kindness and care we’d give to a good friend.”
You can try some exercises to learn greater self-compassion as well as some guided meditations here.
6. Keep In Touch
We humans are social animals. We crave to feel connected and supported and to feel valued by others. Studies have shown that social connection is a vital key to good mental health.
Good social connection has even been linked to having a longer life. In one study on an elderly population people with strong social and community ties were two to three times less likely to die during the nine-year study.
Sometimes social connection can be a heart-to-heart talk over coffee but sometimes it can be a short phone call, or an email or message. Make sure to make time to connect with the loved ones in your life on a regular basis.
If you feel your current social life isn’t giving you enough connection, you can take steps to form new ones such as
- Enrol in a class or hobby that interests you. You’ll be able to connect with others who share a common interest as well as getting out there and trying something new.
- Join a book club, hiking club or other group such a knitting, meditation groups, fitness groups, community gardens or mothers groups.
- Try volunteer work. Not only will you bond with other volunteers and recipients but helping others gives you that warm fuzzy feeling too.
- Reach out and connect to people. Ask people out for coffees, dinners or to events like movies or bands. Try to get out and meet new people.
7. Do Something You Love
What activities do you love doing just for the fun of it? You know the ones you really lose yourself in? Take some time each day to do things you love and just enjoy yourself.
It could be engaging in a hobby like music, art, gardening or going hiking or riding a bike. It could be just having a cup of tea in the sun. Take some time each week (or even each day) to just enjoy life and let go of all your cares and worries for a while. Research also shows that it improves confidence and self esteem as well as improving our overall sense of wellbeing.
Excellent blog Mel! Be Mindful… Pause… Connect!
Hey thanks John. Lovely to have you here : )
Hello Melli,
This is wonderful.
You sure walk the talk.
Best wishes for your coming retreat. at Rocklyn. It’s such a beautiful place.
Warm wishes
Ruth
Thanks Ruth. As always, it’s lovely to hear from you. I am so dearly looking forward to the retreat at Rocklyn too. It’s so stunningly beautiful and filled with wildlife. I wish you could be there with us x
Thank you. This is very inspiring – I plan to reflect on these.
Really stupid photograph to use with this quite sensible article.
Cars have nothing to do with mental health (though their exhaust fumes can damage our brains).
Sitting on top of a car is not a smart thing to do at any time – and it is not entirely clear from the photograph if this one is actually stationery or not.
Laughter helps too. How many ways can we look at this photo. My 1st thought was photoshopped…. Then beautiful scenery… Then I wondered about possible metaphors… Freedom, breaking free from our own self imposed limitations, perhaps… It made me smile anyway which led to me feeling happier…
So grateful that you are there, all my love
ani
It all makes sense, all things that you should do automatically to have a better and happy life!!!
Excellent advice!!
Nice article, thanks. I have learned from many sources, non-dual teachings, that the root of all dis-ease is the false I notion, the belief in a separate I. The world of duality appears from this “kink of consciousness”, the forgetting of the other end true self.
Namaste
I never thought I could learn to control my thoughts. Attending Recovery International Self help meetings gave me the tools to be able to change my thoughts to secure thoughts and protect my Inner Environment from the buffeting of the outer Environment. Now mindfulness is easier.
Thank you Melli! This was timely given our circumstances across the globe, but especially right here in the US ~~ I appreciate you! TYQ (The Yoga Queen) – Teresa
(Teddy) E. Araas, PhD, C-IAYT, ERYT500, RPYT – from Sheridan WYOMING!!
Thanks for your kind words. Yes I agree that it’s truly a time to take better care of ourselves, the planet and eachother. Thanks for being a part of that movement and for your support here : )
Lovely-
so well written and manageable-
As you say Self-compassion is something many of us need to practice
Thank you
Thanks for the re-minder. It is not that I don’t know the keys. I need to be re-minded again and again and again. Thanks and Love
Maintaining your mental health is so important, and can sometimes seem impossible or unreachable for many people, myself included on certain days. These are really simple, yet effective steps you can take, with informative descriptions on why they work. I enjoyed reading it! Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for taking the time to write this kind and thoughtful response Kayla. I am so glad you found these tips helpful : )
I enjoy knowing that across the globe a young woman is practicing and sharing her knowledge. Connection seems to be the thing we are most missing these days – the next step into a compassionate life of service.
Melli,
You are concise and to the point and all your tips are wonderful. Thank you for all your contributions.
Good advice! Thanks Melli!
Good tips for maintenance or prevention, like most articles about this it’s aimed at people who are ok enough to do this stuff, not the seriously suffering. To those who feel this stuff is too hard, and/ or they aren’t worth it, take heed and a tiny step of seeking support so that this list can seem reasonable.
oh how sensible good honest communication, continue with this kind of information.
Nice overview
Thanks for these guidelines Melli.
A very relevant article in a world where it is so easy to forget about self care and how our mental health is affected by our lack of it. Many people need the guidance and suggestions you have offered as far too often people are not aware of how these things are all connected. I would really like more articles on such topics.
Thanks
Thanks Annie. I know what you mean about how easy it is to overlook self-care. I wish they taught this to us in school along with our ABCs!
Wonderful, wise, practical suggestions! Thank you. Oh, I have read consistently that the 2-drink daily threshold is for men; it’s 1 for women. And certain red wines are best, often those recommended in the Mediterranean and MIND diets, the latter for brain health.
Thanks Cate for your thoughtful response. Yeah I found varying daily max recommendations on different sites but since I am in Australia I decided to post our governments recommendations. We are all so different though aren’t we? .. and what is a good dose for one may be wildly different for another. Red wines are full of antioxidants aren’t they? I have heard that in small doses it can be beneficial in that way… but again, I do think it depends of each persons body and tolerance. Thanks so much for posting and being part of this community. I value your comments and thoughts.
You’ve got great advice for improving my life. I like how you said that eating healthy can actually affect how I feel. It seems like I’m always feeling heavy, dull, and disinterested. I’ll have to try eating healthier to see if that will help me in my life.
Do you have any books to recommend that help with being mindful?
Ranee here are some of my favorites…
Books
‘Mindfulness: Finding Peace In A Frantic World’ Danny Penman and Mark Williams
‘The Happiness Trap’ Russ Harris
‘Coming To Our Senses’ Jon Kabat-Zinn
‘Loving What Is’ Byron Katie
‘The Power of Now’ Eckhart Tolle
‘Self Compassion’ Kristin Neff
‘Waking From Sleep’ Steve Taylor
‘Peace Is Every Step’ Thich Nhat Hanh
‘The Spiritual Teachings of Ramana Maharshi’ Ramana Maharshi
‘Daring Greatly’ Brene Brown
‘The Reality Slap: How to Find Fulfilment When Life Hurts’ Russ Harris